Alright, me just as a human on this place we call earth is pretty freaking opinionated.
That in no way means that i don't see where others are coming from or that I think i have the highest way of thought. But again i have kind of a rough draft on how i think certain things should be handled..
i think that people, as long as both (or more) are willing, should do it whenever, and however they want.
But When it comes to sex, for me?
its more then an intense good feeling that you do with someone you find attractive. It is something you save for maybe 4/5 people that are one of your soul mates. ( I will talk about what a soul mate to me is in the near future probably) It is for people that have changed your life and been a part of your life in they way that very few can, it is saved for the people who you are in love with and who you want to show that part of yourself to, to be completely venerable and be able too trust them. You can make sex as ugly and as beautiful as you want, as difficult, and as easy, and sex can make or break you. I understand why some religions wait until marriage even though that is not my belief, it is so much more powerful and incredible then you can fathom. As long as you give it the respect it demands. A thing like that is not to be messed with or taken lightly. the act of sex is actually taking two, living, breathing, thinking, feeling, people and mixing them together to create another living, breathing, thinking, and feeling thing that they are supposed to take care of, and teach, and guide. It is not the childs fault for getting berthed into a family that will not stay together or wasn't ready. that is a fucking tragedy. and that is taken to lightly in our world.
I may not believe or act the same as some people with sex but however someone chooses to deal with it as long as you aren't interfering with someone else. It is there choice and you will respect it. Sex is something people willingly choose to share with one another, it is a privilege for everyone to receive, not an expectation. And no matter who you are. You get to decide to have it or not EVERY SINGLE TIME. No matter the history between you. You do not owe another person something like that.
